Pastors' wives can, and often do, experience trauma and burnout. This is one of the biggest "ah-has" I have seen in pastors' wives in the past two years. Though by no means an exhaustive list, I hope this will help you identify and begin to understand what's going on inside of you if you are VIEW MORE
A Collective Cry: A biblical response to trauma
He came home and said, “The cancer has spread.” Mom picked up the phone, paused, and listened. She let out a terrifying shriek as she fell towards the ground. My 6-year-old cousin had died. I opened my app and read, “a large tree branch has fallen on him...we’re not sure what the future VIEW MORE
4 Reasons We Need A Team {to Thrive in Life & Ministry}
The day it all fell apart, 9 days before Christmas that year, I made two calls. The first was to our children’s school to notify them that our kids wouldn’t be returning. The second was to Jamie. Jamie was my safety net that day. She listened well and when I choked out, “We can’t breathe here. VIEW MORE
Trauma in the Church; What it looks like
Church Trauma for the ministry leader is just beginning to be a conversation beginning to be whispered about in conversations in pastors' families and leadership staff. After walking through my own healing journey (which is never "over"), this has become one of the topics I'm most passionate about. VIEW MORE
How do I learn to trust (someone) again after I’ve been hurt in the church?
Ugh. Do you feel this?! I was recently asked to field this question as part of a larger project we’re putting together over at the More To Be Coach Network. I’ll be talking about that opportunity soon, but I couldn’t wait to give you all the first chance to hear my answer to this deeply VIEW MORE
Our Biggest Fear As Christian Women
What is your biggest fear? I’ve met and talked with many different women in life and as a coach. Over and over again, I’ve heard “I could never just be in silence with God. That would be too much.” Too much. Overwhelming. Too vulnerable. How does the thought of being alone with God feel VIEW MORE
Your First Work As a Daughter of the King
“Can you recall a time when you were a child when you experienced comfort?” I read this question first in a book all about how to make good connection with your spouse in marriage (How We Love). I was just a few pages into the book, when I realized the significance of this question. In fact, its VIEW MORE
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